A SEXPERT who has helped thousands of men “radically transform” their sex lives has revealed that everyone has the ability to become an Adonis between the sheets.

Rebecca Lowrie has helped thousands of men “unlock” everything that was keeping them from reaching their potential in bed over the last 16 years.


Sexpert Rebecca Lowrie says she has helped thousands of men ‘radically transform’ their sex livesCredit: Rebecca Lowrie


“Most sexual problems have nothing to do with sex,” Lowrie said.Credit: Rebecca Lowrie

The 56-year-old, originally from Memphis, Tennessee, has trained in everything from psychology to Urban Tantra during her career.

And he has revealed that the secret to being a sex god often has very little to do with sex.

She explained: “Your sex life doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It is within the context of your life. Most sexual problems have nothing to do with sex.

“They have to do with shame, social conditioning, what someone told you in the past that you have internalized, etc.

“There’s a lot going on besides the sexual thing most of the time.”

Rebecca revealed that while each person she speaks with is unique, there are several practices she teaches many of her clients to help them transform whatever is haunting them.

She said one of the keys is getting people to “fall in love with themselves.”

“But not in an arrogant way, that’s just ego,” he explained.

“I want them to fall in love with their true souls. Know that they are enough just as they are.

“Knowing that they have been deeply rooted to their core, including their sexual selves, that they are loved and accepted and that they can embrace all that they are and choose to share it.”

He also teaches many of his clients to “expand their idea of ​​what sex is.”

“If your idea is that sex is linear and that there is a beginning, a middle and an end, then you are really limiting yourself.

“There may or may not be penetration. There may be multiple orgasms.

“Broadening your ideas of what sex is will actually make you a better lover and help you have more pleasure.”

Perfecting intuition was next on his list, which he described as getting in touch with the senses.

“There are many more senses than the five senses were taught,” he explained.

“There is a sense of time, temperature, sexual energy, arousal.

“You need to start perfecting them and listening to them and listening to them in your body and picking them up in someone else’s body.

“There is a lot of what would seem like subtle energy that is actually mind-bogglingly powerful.

“When you perfect this to hear those things, then the world is your oyster. You can share orgasms and all kinds of things.”

Rebecca’s next recommendation was to expand self-awareness so that people know themselves “inside and out.”

He said that people need to know “what brings you joy, provokes you, feels your emotions and processes emotions.”

“It’s about knowing yourself as deeply as possible.

“If you don’t know yourself and you’re in an intimate situation, you can only bring what you have.

“If you only know yourself on the surface, you can only bring superficial experiences. You need to know who you are, warts and all.

“This includes the hurt parts and the injured parts, not just the good parts. If you cannot incorporate that, then you cannot have a deep level of intimacy.

“If one person can only contribute 30% and another person can do the same, you only have 60%. You want to aim for 200%.

The last thing was acceptance, which according to Rebecca is key to becoming a great lover.

She said that “having muscles has no impact on what kind of lover you are.”

“Loving yourself as you are and being fully present in space, as well as in your own body, is more important,” he said.

“Being able to communicate truthfully, honestly and frankly. Communication is absolutely key to being a great lover.

“Many men are conditioned not to express their feelings. It’s not natural and it creates a contraction that’s like closing a door and you can’t choose what you feel and what you don’t.

“If you close the door and you can’t feel, then you can’t feel what your partner feels.”

She says that during her career she has helped thousands of men open up and become better lovers.

And the benefits extend beyond their love lives, to all aspects of their lives, he said.

“Clients tell me that their whole life changes once they access and accept their full sexual self,” she said.

“They find a whole new life, sexuality has become an integral part of who they are and how they experience themselves.

“They’re talking about sex and pleasure suddenly on a whole different level.

“They have not only learned how to have better sex, but how to live their lives more fully.

“And when they feel more alive in their bodies, it helps them experience more pleasure, deeper intimacy and a richer life.”

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A spokesman said that although it had not been tested at all, it seemed to work for some people.

They added: “I guess it’s all about relaxing and letting go. Some people find that vaping helps them do that, some doesn’t. It’s each to their own.”

Lowrie believes that communication is an important aspect of a sexual relationship.


Lowrie believes that communication is an important aspect of a sexual relationship.Credit: Rebecca Lowrie


“If you close the door and you can’t feel, then you can’t feel what your partner is feeling,” she said.Credit: Rebecca Lowrie

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